The relationship between Col. Graff and Ender Wiggin had many aspects. In the beginning, Ender believed Col. Graff was his friend. ater he thought Col. Graff was only manipulating him. Should Col. Graff have been believed when he said that he was Ender's friend? How should their friendship be judged? When Ender was only six, he met Col. Graff. The colonel came to his house to ask him if he would like to go to …showed first 75 words of 906 total…

…showed last 75 words of 906 total…manipulated him into killing the buggers and saving the world. From Col. Graff's point of view, Ender was a malleable child that had to be shaped in order to save mankind. Col. Graff also demonstrated a kind of love for Ender, though, in keeping the raft that Ender made just because Ender made it. He also saw to it that Ender was amply rewarded for saving the world. Col. Graff was Ender's friend after all.